The Time of Your Life – Inspirations & Insights from Coaching Practice

February 27, 2022 - Comment

This is the first physical book by me, founder of It’s a collection of inspirational articles containing insights and techniques proven to work in my coaching practice. Many will be found on this website and in our newsletters, but this book contains them all, and more besides, packaged into a convenient book of secrets…

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This is the first physical book by me, founder of
It’s a collection of inspirational articles containing insights and
techniques proven to work in my coaching practice. Many will be found
on this website and in our newsletters, but this book contains them
all, and more besides, packaged into a convenient book of secrets
for you.

Physically, this book is around 132 pages of 9 by 6 inch perfect-bound
pages, in a nice glossy cover, containing around 33,000 words. There are
around thirty bite-sized articles, each carefully written to accomplish
these key objectives:

  • To provide easy, entertaining access to key concepts in self-development

  • To peak plainly and directly of real people and their actual experiences
    and struggles toward happiness

  • To share insights about why we are internally-conflicted and why we
    sabotage our own success

  • To explain powerful techniques which work – for ordinary people with
    ordinary doubts and weaknesses

  • To inspire people to believe in the possibility of better, and then
    to reach out and grab it

Bit by bit, this book will dissolve cynicism, pessimism bewilderment and
apathy, clearing away the distortions of our hidden beliefs, opening doors
to the reality which was always there waiting for us to be see more clearly.

Here are a selection of the topics dealt with in this book of secrets:

  • The Tyranny of Freedom

    Western cultures have often risen above the need to work hard for survival.
    We take food and shelter for granted. We have TVs and cars, and options.
    But dammit – what now? Our society doesn’t teach us to take control
    of our lives, and it shuns ambition and confidence. We follow the Jones
    or the TV stereotypes. This is not authentic living, but what is – and
    how do we find our own path? This book will help you to see your inner
    compass. Knowing the direction to start walking is the step before the
    first step.

  • The Lens of Belief Distorts Reality

    We think we see the world as it really is. We call that “reality” and
    resist any attempts to unseat it. But almost inevitably our reality
    is nothing of the kind – it’s a heavily edited, filtered, distorted
    view of the world, which, perversely, we made to support our beliefs.
    We’re trapped. What we need is to recognise and then remove those distortions.
    When we do that, we discover new beliefs – and since beliefs (and not
    intellect) drive behaviour, we’ll see our lives change, and in ways
    which our willpower could never accomplish alone. It’s all in this book.

  • Watching & Controlling our Thoughts

    Our brains are largely autonomous. We sit in there watching
    it do its stuff, we don’t even try to intervene and any attempt
    usually fails anyway. Watching your thoughts is a key to understanding
    why you do what you do. This process provides a window into your beliefs,
    and with understanding, opportunities arise to take back control. This
    is the work of personal transformation. It’s how you change who
    you are
    which ultimately, is what’s necessary to change what you
    do (and the other name for that is your life). It’s in this

  • Managing Time

    Most of us are on a treadmill of one kind or another. We fly
    along meeting immediate demands on our time. We’re too busy working
    IN our lives to work ON them. Controlling how you spend your time
    is key to taking back control, and there are some great techniques to
    help you in this book.

  • FEAR

    Fear is usually the elephant in the room. It’s the huge thing
    we don’t talk about that prevents us from taking action. Once we learn
    to recognise the role of fear in our lives and in our world-view, we
    free ourselves to look into our fear. We can recognise that our fear
    is never based in rational thinking. It comes from another part of ourselves.
    Recognising that, is often the first step to freedom.

  • Conflict

    The role of others in our lives is centrally important. Most
    of us live in social units – work teams, and families. How we relate
    to others, and specifically – how we express our wishes and progress
    our plans within these relationships often comes down to dealing with
    (rather than avoiding) conflict. Conflict aversion is tied intimately
    into fear. Both are barriers to personal growth, and both are explored,
    and techniques offered in this book.

  • Making Change Happen

    So many people read the books, attend the seminars and buy
    in to the concepts but still don’t do the stuff to make change
    happen. I call this inertia, and this book tackles inertia in its various
    forms, and presents techniques – proven in real coaching practice –
    to get you moving in the right direction.

  • Confidence

    Confidence is a manifestation of your beliefs about your self.
    Those beliefs determine your actions and in general, you’ll act to make
    your beliefs true – even when those actions make you sad. So improving
    self esteem is about exploring your beliefs about yourself. Tough work,
    and seldom fast, but with persistence and the techniques in this book,
    you can sustain great progress.

  • Acceptance

    I developed the terms “life blinkers” and “life blindness”
    for something I see in every single client I coach. We accept the ways
    of our world so completely, that we even fail to see them at all. Their
    impact is seen as the way of the world. Universally true aspects
    of reality which are not negotiable. Exposing these blind spots offers
    the possibility of radical life transformation, and the book shows real-world
    examples to you get it – and take it into your own life.

All of this is dealt with in down-to-earth ways, in plain language, and
illustrated with real-life examples from my coaching practice. I KNOW this
stuff works; I use it daily, and I see it working daily in my clients’ lives.

Time of Your Life

Insights & Inspirations from Coaching Practice

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Incredibly Powerful

– A.T.

I’m writing to say how much I’ve been enjoying all your
newsletters – not only is the content brief and to the point but they’re
also aesthetically pleasing!

– A.E.

It is always SO GOOD to … see your newsletters which
I devour and then print and place in a special file called “‘ME!”
There is something wholesome about “wise counsel” which
has the power to change the direction of my day.

… My life is at a better place because of you.

– T.C.

I would like to deeply appreciate my thanks for your
well formulated, inspiring, vision-awakening and hope-evoking newsletters.
It has motivated me to do something very big which will instill a
deep confidence to work for my permanent holistic transformation.

– Anonymous

Thank you for the [technique] – it is powerful – as everything you
put into my life has been. I am so so so well. I’m sure you won’t
believe me but that one month with your coaching has had a great effect
on me. I have filed everything away in a special file and am now really
studying each word/concept/new thought. I have changed. Discovered
my SELF and loving me.

Loved your … ‘Conquering Fear’ – need to do more work
on that!

– G.B.

… your articles are always well read here!

– Sarah

Your newsletters really work for me, especially when
you explain a concept and illustrate it with a real life example of
a dialogue that you had with one of your client. Other coaches are
just full of testimonial but never expose some of the inner working
of their work. It feels like they’re all about marketing a product
rather than coaching. Your newsletter inspires confidence.

– Y.R.

Thanks again Chris, Had a personal upset recently [detailed].
You’ve made me realise, I just need to smile and take all these things
in, and appreciate them…You know…Your a star 🙂

– Lee

Thanks for your inspirational [articles] which I have
really enjoyed reading. So a real big thank you and please keep up
the good work!!

– H.M.

Hi Chris. I just love to read your [articles].

– C.E.

I have really enjoyed [your articles]. They have been
helpful in various ways… I was pleased that at no time did you try
to “push” me into signing up for anything. Also that you
were courteous enough to reply to my first e-mail in a most sympathetic
and helpful way… I thank you for your articles though as they have
been a “boost”

– R.S.

.. it’s very relevant to where I’m at in my life right now…Keep
inspiring and aspiring – it works for me.

– Y.S.

Hi Chris,

I think what you offer is fantastic, lots of free advice and support
and of course your life coaching option

… I have, this morning, started to work my way through your site
and already find this helpful.

– Geraldine Daly

Hi Chris, … This is really relevant to me. My thinking now is so
different to where I was when I was talking to you. All going well
at this end, exciting stuff!

– M.M.

Hi I just really want to say thanks for your [articles].
I am going through a difficult midlife time right now and it is helping
me to stay positive. I will surely seek your advice in the near future
if i feel i could do with your help on the way Many thanks Chris x


I really get so much from your articles which, for me, cover topics
that make me laugh, think, feel sad, happy and loads more. But you
speak from the heart and share not only your professional thoughts
and advice; I feel you come from a personal place too but you’re not
scared ‘to go there’. I find that truly special and thank you so much
because this gives me courage to face my fears knowing the world isn’t
going to come crashing down. I may be a bit wobbly for a while, but
that’s how I learn and am able to move on feeling stronger.

I look forward to your articles and pray you will continue to be blessed
and inspired by the Creator to keep `doing you’.

– Joycelyn

I Find all your [articles] very useful, and take time to read them
over & over again.

– Sarah

Thank you for your [articles]. I have acted on this, and am now in
a great job, and it helped to have your ‘making friends with your
boss’ type advice to do this. I stopped being angry and started to
be proactive and got my confidence back, and proceeded to go to an
interview and get a new job,

Thank you

– Michelle

Dear Chris, I just wanted to say thank you for [your
articles]. It definitely helped me to make a big step in my life.
I choose leaving [here] and moved back to [there], now my second step
is to create my new life back home after 5 years being away.

I will need to change my goal now:-)

– A.S.

… your newsletters are truly inspirational and have
been invaluable to me!

– Carolyn

This [article] was the most relevant thing I have read
for YEARS!!!

– Adrian

…another [article] … that hits the spot! I have been doing some
reading on this subject and its amazing how life throws up these synchronicities.
Being present is fantastic its just a little hard to keep it flowing
as the dreaded Auto pilot keeps switching on! :0)

All the best Chris.

– Lee

‘Great’ really sums it up. It is so good to take another
look at everyday thoughts and ideas from a different perspective –

– Ellie

The advice I have read so far has already changed my
ways of thinking….thankyou.

– Hazel


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